Why Being Angry can be Awesome for You.

Recently, I realized another epiphany in my life. There are certain times in your life when being sad is the normal thing to do and you want people to feel bad for you. You need people to realize you're upset and with that, you hope that they will be willing to listen and help with the situation at hand. This is fine for certain situations, however, in other situations..there are only so many things that people can do for you before you realize that you've pushed them away with the bullshit you need help with that you could have gotten over in a much shorter amount of time. You constantly talk about the same problem and the same conclusion comes to mind but you're always too afraid to go with it, so you just regress and stay in a limbo state between being over the situation and just feeling sorry for yourself again.

Then there's this cool thing, it's called being angry about a situation instead of feeling sorry for yourself.

When someone hurts you..why do you need other people to feel sorry for you? Sure it works once or twice but you're never going to get over it until you stop trying for pity and you realize that the person you're upset with HURT you. Don't be sad about it, be ANGRY at them. They hurt you, they're in your past for a reason, and yet people continually beat themselves up over things because they feel that it's their faults instead of the person that hurt them.

Stop it. Just..stop right now, and save yourself the trouble. Feeling sorry for yourself is temporary. Telling yourself that the person was wrong for hurting you and remembering that pain is permanent. You remember the anguish that happened and you don't want to go back there and think about the "happy" times you had, those times are gone. What should stick is why that person is terrible to you and you want to remember that the past is in the past and the future is what you're always working towards.

This is why anger is actually a great emotion to have about certain things. Being angry reminds you of how bad the past can be and with that, you learn to move on to the future, and you use the right feelings. Like being incredibly angry and someone who wrecked your emotions, or something else horrible that may have happened due to another person. Use anger to keep on fighting and move on from the past, because the future is what matters in the end, and you have to remember one thing..the person you were angry at? They sure aren't going to be in the future if you live your life the way YOU want it to be.