Recently, life has gone from pretty terrible to being one of the happiest times of my life, and a lot of it has been due to a very core group of friends that figured out what I needed and made me stick to it, and with those changes, a lot of positive has come with it. However, through the thick and thin, there have been numerous times where I could have been stupid enough for them to just leave me, and if that would have happened..I could only imagine what kind of hole I would be in at this point.
So i'm here today to simply say this: DON'T STAY ANGRY AT YOUR FRIENDS. EVER.
Being mad over the small things that happen is not worth the danger that can come from losing people that are close to you. Sure you're going to disagree, everybody does at some point, but it's not difficult to learn from your mistakes and just get past it. Having those people around for you will be so much more beneficial than thinking that you are right and "winning" in your own head. However, by having those people around, they will be able to help you more in your life and really help you to make the most of what you want.
My own case was very evident to me, in a slightly different situation. Despite knowing what my problems were and knowing what I needed to do, I still felt like I would need to talk about these things, when I knew in all honesty that all I needed was more time to do these things. The problem was that I was beginning to alienate myself from everybody else and only focusing on the bad things and not actually fixing my issues, which I found out later on was actually a very serious issue that was pushing me away from people.
However, by those people not giving up on me and not staying mad at me..I kept on. By keeping on the path that they eventually helped me with, i'm now where I am now, in a seemingly amazing situation that seems like it can only go up from here, and people are finally noticing me change, which is the first time it's really happened in close to a year. Because of a few people being selfless enough to stick with me through the thich and thin and get past their anger to support me, I got to where I am now and i'm more than thankful for everything, especially now that my life is drastically different from where it has been.
So, moral of the story. Regardless of the problems you have, no matter how badly you feel about someone or something they have done..don't give up on them easily. It's much better to try and support them over just throwing them away, because some people aren't entirely sure of just how big an impact they have on people. Having friends and being able to get through the arguments will be so much more beneficial in the end, and your friends will be able to know just how much you mean to them and how much you care about them.
Remember, as long as you keep fighting, your true friends will be right behind you, helping you along, and that can mean the difference between feeling terrible and being where I am now..which is in one of the happiest states i've been in for quite some time.
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